The Road Less Traveled

There is the wide road used by most people of this world and there is the narrow way, the Road Less Traveled. This blog is about experiences, people and places on the narrow path. I lived and worked in North Africa for many years. That is my outer journey. But my inner journey is spiritual, global and universal. In 2012, I moved to the Golden Triangle region of SE Asia (Laos, Myanmar, Thailand). I have started a whole new adventure. Come join me on the Road Less Traveled. Without and within.

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Friday, March 23, 2007

Bargaining for a Price

My wife, L couldn't believe it! The (male) vendor was having a fit - yelling and grabbing the clothes and throwing them around.

L shopped for clothes in the suq (open market). After finding 4 shirts, what she wanted, she haggled for an hour with the vendor.
L: "How much?"
Vendor: "60 dhs."
L: "I give you 40 dhs."
V: "50 dhs, OK?"
L: "40 dhs each, and I want these four shirts."
V: "40 dhs for these two shirts. But, not for those other two."
L: "No, no. Come on! You reduced for two. Reduce for the others. I want the four shirts for 40 dhs each."

At this point, the vendor lost it! He started yelling, grabbing and being mean. L was so shocked that she got "mad" too. [bargaining is part theater] Both she and the male vendor was angry such that another vendor (male) came over to calm L down.

"You have to understand that V is sick; he is diabetic. He loses it sometimes, he can't help himself. Please forgive him."

L stopped griping and composed herself. "OK, just give me a good price."

All in a day shopping at the suq.

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I remember many similar scenes. Sometimes I haggled too hard and felt mean afterwards. Sometimes I did not haggle hard enough, and I think the vendor felt smug but disatisfied, not to have enjoyed the sport. My favorite trick was to bargain for a decent price, then give a tip! This worked well with rickshaw pullers. We had to agree before the ride. Then at the end of the ride I would hand the agreed amount, and then a tip, with a "thank you for your hard work" comment.

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