The Road Less Traveled

There is the wide road used by most people of this world and there is the narrow way, the Road Less Traveled. This blog is about experiences, people and places on the narrow path. I lived and worked in North Africa for many years. That is my outer journey. But my inner journey is spiritual, global and universal. In 2012, I moved to the Golden Triangle region of SE Asia (Laos, Myanmar, Thailand). I have started a whole new adventure. Come join me on the Road Less Traveled. Without and within.

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Tuesday, February 02, 2010

Not Without My Daughter, Child Custody

Some years ago, there was a movie, "Not without My Daughter" about an American woman, played by Sally Field, married to an Iranian man, who divorced him and fled Iran with her daughter. It was based on a true story. Stories like this are more common than we realise.

We know a marriage on the "rocks" involving Laura, a European woman married to Samar, a Moroccan man. They have one child, a girl. The husband is abusive physically and emotionally. The better thing would be for Laura to leave. But, she is afraid of leaving the country because she fears that she would lose her daughter.

Inter-marriages create interesting and difficult situations. When children are involved, it gets complicated. For one thing, the marriage and family law and custody rights in Morocco are different than Western countries. Foreigners enter not knowing that they are at a disadvantage living here.

The news article below illustrates how serious custody fights can be, even creating international incidents. Wow!

Morocco demands legal action in custody row with Norway

RABAT (AFP) – Morocco on Tuesday demanded that legal action be taken against Norwegian diplomats who stepped into a child custody battle involving former Olympic champion Khalid Skah.

Norway's government admitted Monday that one of its diplomats and two off-duty members of its military had played a role in operations which led to the two children of the athlete being smuggled out of the country. The Norwegian government however denied being involved directly in the smuggling.

Skah, who won the 10,000 metres at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics, had accused the Norwegian embassy in Rabat of abducting the pair and helping their Norwegian mother, Anne Cecilie Hopstock, organise their clandestine exit from Morocco in July last year.

A Moroccan foreign ministry statement said that "the perpetrators of the fraudulent exit from our territory of the two Moroccan children and their accomplices have committed serious violations and cannot remain unpunished." It said those implicated "must be legally held to account."

Oslo admits it temporarily housed Selma, born in 1993, and Tarik, born in 1996, at the ambassador's residence, believing their safety was at risk. The two children were then taken out of the country by boat by two members of the Norwegian special forces who, according to Oslo, were on vacation at the time and acting without knowledge of their superiors.

Skah's former wife has been demanding custody of the children, who have dual nationality and are now in Norway, since leaving Morocco in 2007. She has filed charges against him for kidnapping, violence and threats.
Both parents have obtained custody of the children in their respective countries.

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